Recently I received a call from a lady, I’ll call Pat. She wanted my help with a situation she was in, and she was getting very frustrated. She stays home and keeps the house for him, and he is very demanding.
At middle age, she has been in a 5-year relationship with him. And he won’t commit or admit he loves her. Pat feels her relationship is like a Father/Daughter situation.
He “cares” for her. He wants her to be happy and she deserves better. They argue a lot and sometimes it gets physical. He can’t seem to give her the “love” she wants and craves.
Pat indicated they don’t have much in common. She likes to get out and do things (sports). He’s a teacher and likes to stay at home and read. She wanted my advice on how to get him to love her the way she wants him to. It’s a good bet she won’t change him. There is a lot of hate, anger, fear, and frustration in relationships that don’t work.
No one desires or deserves that type of relationship. If children are involved it only makes it worse. I suggested she consider making plans to make another life for herself.
I always hate to hear this. There is too much pain and suffering when couples stay together for the wrong reasons.
I never heard from her again. So I don’t know what happened to her or her relationship. But if you are in a similiar situation what would you do? And if you want my help, let me know.
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